Not every couple dreams of a big wedding—and that’s where micro weddings come in. A micro wedding is an intimate celebration, usually with about 10-50 guests. These smaller gatherings allow couples to focus on what matters most: their love story, the people closest to them, and being fully present in the moment. Think of a micro wedding as the sweet spot between an elopement and a traditional wedding. You still get the elements of a wedding day—vows, dinner, maybe even a first dance—but without the stress and logistics of a large guest list. Many couples love the relaxed pace and the chance to spend meaningful time with each guest.

Is a Micro Wedding Right for You?

Here are a few questions to help you decide:

• Do you want your day to feel relaxed and intentional rather than rushed?
• Would you rather spend your budget on meaningful details instead of hosting hundreds of guests?
• Do you want to be able to connect personally with everyone at your wedding?
• Does the idea of less stress and more presence sound appealing?

If you said yes to any of these, a micro wedding in Hawaiʻi could be perfect for you.

M&J’s Micro Wedding at House of Grace

M&J knew they wanted a celebration that felt intimate and true to them. They chose the House of Grace in Aina Haina, a hidden gem on Oʻahu’s southeast shore. With its lush greenery, oceanside views, and private setting, it was the ideal venue for their vision.

Their day was simple yet beautiful—exchanging heartfelt vows in the garden, then gathering with family for a cozy dinner. Without the distractions of a large event, they were able to fully soak in every moment and enjoy being surrounded by their closest loved ones.

Why Couples Love Micro Weddings in Hawaiʻi

From private venues like House of Grace to oceanfront spaces and tucked-away gardens, Hawaiʻi offers endless options for couples who want to keep their day small but meaningful. With fewer guests, it’s easier to personalize your celebration—whether that means writing your own vows, planning a family-style meal, or sneaking away for sunset photos together I’m here for it all.

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Venue @thehouseofgrace_ainahaina
Photographer @mayaenosphotography
Hair & Makeup @mai_hairandmakeup
Dress @masakobridal
Flowers @puahanaflower
Leis @hawaiianleicompany